Who Do You Love?

Who Do You Love?

We all face hard times and challenges. Here are three very powerful questions you could ask yourself to help you beging to feel much better about yourself and yoru situation:1. Who do I love? Who do you love unconditionally? Do you have children or a special friend? When you focus on others your own dramas seemd to fade into insignificance. 2. Who loves me? Everybody is loved by at least one...

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What Are You Measuring Your Life By?

What Are You Measuring Your Life By?

‘The ego lives by comparisons.’ A Course in Miracles I love my posts because I need to read them myself. We all tend to measure our lives by something. That can be a problem if we then kick ourselves because we don’t measure up. Comparison of course can be healthy, such as when we feel inspired to better ourselves but often this strategy can become very distorted. Men can often...

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Is Suffering Necessary?

Is Suffering Necessary?

I caught myself complaining yesterday. I then realised that I had been complaining about the same thing for several days. I would find myself thinking about a business problem I’m working on and repeating the same words out of my mouth to my wife. I then picked up a wonderful book called ‘The Road Less Travelled’ by M Scott Peck. Here is what I realised. Problems are a part of...

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Overcoming Obstacles

Overcoming Obstacles

Anything worth achieving will come with a price tag. Getting whatever you want is fairly simple on paper – work out what you want, work out the price you have to pay to get it and then pay that price. I set a fat loss goal a few weeks back and immediately fell ill. I got better and then injured my back right after that. The joke goes, if you want to make God laugh, then tell Him your...

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Who Says You Can’t?

Who Says You Can’t?

I’m moving to Australia soon. Not quite sure of the exact location but it will be: Short walk to the beach Near to coffee shops Short walk/jog to the gym I will have a nice big house with a pool in the garden, eat breakfast outside each day and probably have a BBQ most evenings. I wonder where you would like to be living and how you would like your days to be? I ask because most people...

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What Are You Measuring Your Life By?

What Are You Measuring Your Life By?

Bad news time. There will always be somebody better than you at something. We can often look at other people’s achievements and find ourselves falling short. Other people will be able to make more money than we can at the moment, they will be taller, fitter, faster or simply able to do stuff that we can’t (such as go into space). We can look at other people and use it in two...

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